I have been reading, in one of those fits of academic whimsy that I am sure overtakes everyone at one time or another, a rather strange little book, the late Neil Postman's The Disappearance of Childhood, a 1994 reissue of his 1982 work dissecting the curiously adultish quality of most modern children and the equally odd childishness of most contemporary adults. (Postman, a Marshall McLuhan-ish cultural critic who died in 2003, is best known for his 1985 work Amusing Ourselves to Death, on television.) There is a lot of fodder for thought here, though there are also numerous puzzling gaps to and odd ramifications springing from his thesis; he also lays the blame in equally peculiar places. One might claim that our current spate of adult adolescence lies more in the exaggeration and final end of our age's own cult of youth-worship than in its negation.
One of these difficulties, dealing with his discussion of what might be termed the history of childhood, is his contention there were no children in the Middle Ages. This is not that he claims medieval man emerged fully-sprung from his mother's womb, but that the child was not recognized as a separate category of human individual. There is something to be said for this; there is also even more to be said to his contention we are sliding into the same state today under the infantilizing tendencies of modern media. At the same time the idea seems curiously off somehow. The problem is there is a sizable difference between predominantly childlike adults and adultish children as well as the usual anthropological problem of studying humans like insects, and forgetting they're still quite human.
He cites as evidence the fact no medieval artist seems able to properly draw a baby--making them look instead like little men--and the crude, dirty, shameless behavior of medieval tavern-dwellers who seem to have never heard their mother say, of their loutish actions, "Not in front of little Junior!" He claims that, while the ancient Romans recognized the child, the decline of literacy, and thus the need for formal schooling in the manner we recognize, brought about this curious breakdown of the boundaries between child and adult as civilization ostensibly collapsed.
The problem here, and in his discussion of modern culture, is that Postman seems unable to define whether he is talking about the disappearance of childhood or the disappearance of adulthood (though it would seem the two phenomena are related). His medievals are childish illiterates whose best scholars are so defeated by the intricate stylization of early calligraphy (in contrast to the eminent legibility of Roman script) that they must torturously mumble their way through a text of Augustine like a kid learning phonics. This is not medieval history, this is the plot of the film Idiocracy as performed by the cast of Monty Python and the Holy Grail.
While silent reading, when practiced, was considered something of a wonder, the verbal reading of medieval scholars certainly was not the stumbling, fumbling childish attempt he paints it as. Medieval calligraphy was highly ornamented, but certainly could be read by someone who was familiar with the script, as any medievalist could tell you. Could you imagine ten monks huddled around an enormous psalter trying chant and to decypher the letters in that fashion at the same time? Indeed, the Romans practiced verbal reading--the story of St. Philip and the Ethiopian eunuch, reading aloud the Old Testament to himself while sitting in his carriage, suggests as much.
Certainly medieval children were treated more like small adults, at least more so than their Rousseauian 18th century counterparts. (Their elders had more commonsense, for one thing.) But that does not mean they were not loved in a way different from their older peers. To suggest, as he does, citing another auctoritee (if we're going to get all medieval here) on the subject, that parental love of children in the modern sense only goes back to the seventeenth century boggles the mind in the face of the great tenderness of even the earliest icons of the Christ-Child and His Mother, as odd as the little old man-baby might have looked. The entire cultus of the Infant Jesus is a counterexample to such an extravagant claim. The past may be another planet at times, but its inhabitants were not space aliens.
He might have also pointed out, based on the same evidence, that in the Middle Ages that some houses were missing their exterior walls so as to see the scenes within, or that kings slept wearing their crowns, or that the Egyptians had eyes on the sides of their heads, if we are to take artistic evidence that literally. Furthermore, to pretend that medieval schools were a small matter, and no line separated child from adult, is a bit of a stretch in light of the fact the university (Cambridge, Oxford, Paris, Salamanca, Bologna) as we know it was invented in this period. Primary and secondary schools were probably of less consequence than today, but to ignore them at all is rather a remarkable gap in his thesis.
What Postman sees as the discovery of childhood during the Renaissance (which he ascribes to the printing-press and the growth of literacy, despite the fact that Gutenberg was rather a johnny-come-lately to the period, which was in full swing in Italy at least fifty years to a century before he put print to paper, depending on how one reckons it) might instead be termed the rise of the middle class, and the ability to apply the more luxuried upper-class notions notions of human behavior to a wider audience. That Erasmus would write manuals on manners for children suggests not that kings and princes behaved like slovenly teenagers during the Middle Ages, but that the peasantry did; and even then, that may be ascribable less to the absence of childhood than the absence of germ theory. Brueghel's shameless scenes of general rejoicing are probably less representative of an adult population acting as if it were on spring break in Brughes than typical Catholic boisterousness and a lack of manners wholly appropriate to their class, rather than their age group.
Certainly, the cosseted and rather silly 19th century notion of childhood was absent in past ages, and much of what happened in the artificial environment of schools happened at one's mother's knee or the equivalent of on-the-job training, but to say that child and adult were indivisible in fifteenth-century Flanders, is rather hard to take. As to his contention that childhood is disappearing today--and that, at the same time, so is adulthood--that is another matter entirely, and deserves another post.
Unfortunately I studied all of this long enough ago that I can't remember the scholarly references (and I don't have time to look them up). But, bear with me.
ReplyDeleteFirst, I don't think that there was a sense of childhood in our terms. Kids began working early. My grandmother, raised in a small Sicilian town, began doing needlework as soon as she could hold a needle, at about the age of four. (And was scandalized at our twentieth century suburban indolence.) You will still find cultures like that today. Small children watching still smaller children, herding animals, learning to weave, etc. Everyone knows that they are children and less capable of making adult decisions and not fully mature. Yet, they are given increasing responsibilities as they grow. And then they are ready for marriage and their own households.
So, I think it is right to say that childhood as we conceive of it (a time of recreation and education) didn't exist. But, there was a definite sense that people needed protection in their minority. (Why else the disposition of guardianships, etc for minor children mentioned in wills?)
What you don't have in the medieval world was a romanticization of that period of one's life. Or the cult of the child, which I think we still suffer from. (Watch how the darlings are let to run wild at church at times. I had to take a Sharpie away from a three year old who was using it to deface a pew while the parents looked on. The kid screamed and the mom said to me, "That is what is keeping her quiet." Seriously, lady, do you want to pay to refinish the oak? But, I digress.)
I think that the difference is that parenting then meant expecting your four year old to begin to behave like a civilized person. Parenting now often means expecting your four year old to 'behave like a child.' Herein lies the difference.
What I have discovered, working with kids for a lifetime, is that they are pretty eager to take on responsibility and skills - and they can. What we often don't do is challenge them to accept the next level of behavior and expectations. We want to 'keep them children a bit longer' which now seems to sometimes mean to age thirty. (In the middle ages, this was a ripe old age, about the time one began thinking of marrying off one's own kids.)
Postman is basing his thesis on THE CENTURIES OF CHILDHOOD by Phillipe Aries. Medievalists debunked that 30 years ago and more. Medieval people did love their children and did wait for them to go through stages of maturity. Adolescents still did wild & crazy things nor were they equated with adults. Journeymen didn't marry, unless they snagged the master's widow. Marriage marked definitive adulthood.
ReplyDeleteThirty years as "old" is an artifact of high infant mortality bringing down the average lifespan. Royalty and high nobility were often betrothed as children but the lower ranks in NW Europe were marrying in their early 20s after inheritance or mastership gave young men the means to do so. Medieval and Renaissance Tuscan men were marrying in their mid-30s to girls 20 years younger, just as Late Antique Romans had done.
Suggested reading: David Herlihy and Barbara Hanawalt on families, Nicholas Orme on medieval schooling.
Ah, this is good, and confirms the gut feelings of "wrong" I had during my reading.
ReplyDeleteOne interesting question I hope to address in a future post is how the modern cult of childhood has in some ways actually *created* the "disappearance of childhood" Postman sees in the present day, rather than the peculiar theory he has that involves television, or Samuel Morse, or...something. It was a little confusing.
Yes, when I mentioned the 'thirties as mid life, I was thinking more of women than of men. Women married in their teens, fairly often. Men who had trades married later. Men who were farming probably married sooner. (And that was most men.)
ReplyDeleteWhen I think of my grandmother's generation (and she married at 30, but that was a huge aberration), women married at 16 and were thinking of who their own children would marry when they were in their mid-30's. Now, women are just getting going with having children. It is a definite shift overall, although obviously some married later, even then.
Really interesting post.
ReplyDeleteBut we must not assume that the habits of our own ancestors were representative of either their own era or long stretches of past time. My maternal grandmother married at 25 in 1915 to a man her own age but her older sister had married at 18 (and was divorced after a year). In the late 50s, the average age at marriage for American girls was 19.
ReplyDeleteVery late marriages were typical in post Famine Ireland but early ones usual in SE Europe. (But young teen girls weren't normally running their own homes in the later case.) Women in 17th C France had to work and save until they could afford to marry at about 28--sound familiar?
Demographic history is a fascinating topic. Patterns have varied dramatically depending on era, culture and class.
There are plenty of medieval stories and poems featuring wittle children who do cute things and are seen as sweet. "The Child Born in Prison", on the good side, or the various anti-Semitic Little Hugh stories, on the bad side.
ReplyDeleteAnd I thought the "man-baby" thing was supposed to show that Christ was a baby who wasn't a normal baby, but rather a baby God-man.
I was just talking today with one of my professors about the difficulties of early adulthood in the modern era. On the one hand, those of us in our early twenties (I'm 25 now, so I guess not "early" 20s anymore) have to suffer through our elders telling us how irresponsible we are, and how so many of our generation are lazing around at home and still, at 24 and 25, mooching off their parents.
ReplyDeleteOn the other hand, no one will give us jobs because we lack experience, no one will give us health or car insurance because we're assumed to be irresponsible, we have crippling debt from college, we can't buy a car because we have no credit rating, but no one will give us a credit card because we have no credit rating (figure that one out). How can we prove our responsibility and not continue to "mooch" off our parents when every institution assumes that we're too irresponsible to take a chance on?
Thanks greeat post
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